Earlier this month, The Knot featured an article entitled “10 New Year’s Resolutions for Every Bride”. We liked it so much that we have decided to share some highlights with you and add a few of our own…
1. I will create a wedding website for my destination wedding
This is one of our own additions to the list. You should never underestimate the importance of a wedding website, especially for destination weddings. While you may be used to hopping on and off of airplanes and hiring cars or taking trains in foreign countries, not all of your guests may be as well-travelled and confidant as you. This can cause real anguish for some of your guests. Make it as easy as possible for your guests to get to your destination wedding by creating a user-friendly, comprehensive wedding website. Don’t forget to include the following information: links to airline websites proposing direct flights to your wedding destination; links to public transport websites where guests can book train tickets or hire cars; links to B&B/hotel/campsite websites and a price-fork for each one (if all of your guests cannot be lodged at your wedding venue); tell your guests if you will be providing transportation on the wedding day; include information about local tourist attractions; tell your guests what weather they can expect and the dress code on the wedding day; describe the wedding venue and give a full run-down of your wedding day and/or wedding weekend activities. The aim is to reassure your guests and let them know that attending your destination wedding will be easy and that once on-site they will have a great time!
2. I will not use my Facebook status as a personal wedding journal.
While you are understandably engrossed in your own wedding preparations, it does not follow that all of your Facebook friends necessarily share the same enthusiasm for the color scheme you have just chosen or the pretty table plan you just purchased. We’re not saying that the everyday details are not interesting, just that you are perhaps using the wrong platform to share this information. Why not create your own wedding planning blog so that your friends can keep up to date on all the ups and downs when they choose?
3. I will trust my Wedding Planner
This is another of our own additions to the list! Planning a destination wedding can be fun and exciting but also daunting and challenging, especially when planning across oceans, time zones or language barriers. In this instance, your choice of Wedding Planner takes on additional importance. Once that decision has been made, he/she effectively becomes your ears, eyes, nose and taste in your destination country. They know better than you what the local traditions are, where the best cakes can be found, which is the best wedding band and the most reliable caterer. Don’t underestimate their knowledge and local know-how and learn to trust them! That’s why you chose them after all!
4. I will not feel guilty about having an adults-only wedding
Don’t lose sight of the fact that it is your wedding and that your happiness on that one special day of your life is paramount. If this means that you would prefer not having toddlers running around screaming and tripping up your elderly aunt or babies crying during the ceremony then that is your decision and you are entitled to it. Nobody will be offended so long as you remain consistent and do not make any exceptions. Be upfront on your invitations and on your wedding website and don’t feel bad!
5. I will actually eat the dinner at my reception (that includes cake!)
You have worked so hard to plan your wedding, it would be a shame not to savor the food that you took months to decide upon! With all the excitement on your wedding day, brides (and grooms) often forget to take the time to eat their wedding dinner. You have spent months dieting to make sure you fit into your wonderful gown. You look fantastic, your wedding ceremony was a touching, moving experience, you have had the photo session with your professional wedding photographer so you deserve a piece of your delicious wedding cake with a glass of bubbly! Don’t deprive yourself of this amazing memory!
The full article can be found on The Knot.
Happy planning!